Since `tractor`'s new and improved inter-actor cancellation semantics
are much more pedantic, AND bc we use the `ServiceMngr` for spawning
service actors on-demand, the caller of `maybe_spawn_daemon()` should
NEVER conduct a so called "out of band" `Actor`-runtime cancel request
since this is precisely the job of our `ServiceMngr` XD
Add a super in depth note explaining the underlying issue and adding
a todo list of how we should prolly augment `tractor` to make such cases
easier to grok and fix in the future!