Support `maybe_wait_for_debugger(header_msg: str)`

Allow callers to stick in a header to the `.pdb()` level emitted msg(s)
such that any "waiting status" content is only shown if the caller
actually get's blocked waiting for the debug lock; use it inside the
`._spawn` sub-process reaper call.

Also, return early if `Lock.global_actor_in_debug == None` and thus
only enter the poll loop when actually needed, consequently raise
if we fall through the loop without acquisition.

tractor/_spawn.py

@@ -541,13 +541,14 @@ async def trio_proc(
                         with trio.move_on_after(0.5):
                             await proc.wait()
 
-                log.pdb(
-                    'Delaying subproc reaper while debugger locked..'
-                )
                 await maybe_wait_for_debugger(
                     child_in_debug=_runtime_vars.get(
                         '_debug_mode', False
                     ),
+                    header_msg=(
+                        'Delaying subproc reaper while debugger locked..\n'
+                    ),
+
                     # TODO: need a diff value then default?
                     # poll_steps=9999999,
                 )

tractor/devx/_debug.py

@@ -999,6 +999,8 @@ async def maybe_wait_for_debugger(
     poll_delay: float = 0.1,
     child_in_debug: bool = False,
 
+    header_msg: str = '',
+
 ) -> None:
 
     if (
@@ -1007,6 +1009,8 @@ async def maybe_wait_for_debugger(
     ):
         return
 
+
+    msg: str = header_msg
     if (
         is_root_process()
     ):
@@ -1016,13 +1020,13 @@ async def maybe_wait_for_debugger(
         # will make the pdb repl unusable.
         # Instead try to wait for pdb to be released before
         # tearing down.
-        sub_in_debug: tuple[str, str] | None = None
+        sub_in_debug: tuple[str, str]|None = Lock.global_actor_in_debug
-
+        debug_complete: trio.Event|None = Lock.no_remote_has_tty
-        for istep in range(poll_steps):
 
         if sub_in_debug := Lock.global_actor_in_debug:
-                log.pdb(
+            msg += (
-                    f'Lock in use by {sub_in_debug}'
+                'Debug `Lock` in use by subactor\n'
+                f'|_{sub_in_debug}\n'
             )
             # TODO: could this make things more deterministic?
             # wait to see if a sub-actor task will be
@@ -1030,34 +1034,45 @@ async def maybe_wait_for_debugger(
             # tick?
             # XXX => but it doesn't seem to work..
             # await trio.testing.wait_all_tasks_blocked(cushion=0)
+        else:
+            log.pdb(
+                msg
+                +
+                'Root immediately acquired debug TTY LOCK'
+            )
+            return
+
+        for istep in range(poll_steps):
+
 
-            debug_complete: trio.Event|None = Lock.no_remote_has_tty
             if (
                 debug_complete
                 and not debug_complete.is_set()
                 and sub_in_debug is not None
             ):
                 log.pdb(
-                    'Root has errored but pdb is in use by child\n'
+                    msg
-                    'Waiting on tty lock to release..\n'
+                    +
-                    f'uid: {sub_in_debug}\n'
+                    'Root is waiting on tty lock to release..\n'
                 )
                 await debug_complete.wait()
                 log.pdb(
-                    f'Child subactor released debug lock!\n'
+                    f'Child subactor released debug lock:'
-                    f'uid: {sub_in_debug}\n'
+                    f'|_{sub_in_debug}\n'
                 )
-                if debug_complete.is_set():
-                    break
 
             # is no subactor locking debugger currently?
-            elif (
+            if (
+                 sub_in_debug is None
+                and (
                     debug_complete is None
-                or sub_in_debug is None
+                    or debug_complete.is_set()
+                )
             ):
                 log.pdb(
-                    'Root acquired debug TTY LOCK from child\n'
+                    msg
-                    f'uid: {sub_in_debug}'
+                    +
+                    'Root acquired tty lock!'
                 )
                 break
 
@@ -1073,8 +1088,14 @@ async def maybe_wait_for_debugger(
                 with trio.CancelScope(shield=True):
                     await trio.sleep(poll_delay)
                     continue
+
+        # fallthrough on failure to acquire..
         else:
-            log.pdb('Root acquired debug TTY LOCK')
+            raise RuntimeError(
+                msg
+                +
+                'Root actor failed to acquire debug lock?'
+            )
 
     # else:
     #     # TODO: non-root call for #320?