Unbounded `trio.CancelScope(shield=True)` at the
soft-kill and thread-join sites can wedge the parent
trio loop indefinitely when a stuck subint ignores
portal-cancel (e.g. bc the IPC channel is already
broken).
Deats,
- add `_HARD_KILL_TIMEOUT` (3s) module-level const
- wrap both shield sites with
`trio.move_on_after()` so we abandon a stuck
subint after the deadline
- flip driver thread to `daemon=True` so proc-exit
also isn't blocked by a wedged subint
- pass `abandon_on_cancel=True` to
`trio.to_thread.run_sync(driver_thread.join)`
— load-bearing for `move_on_after` to actually
fire
- log warnings when either timeout triggers
- improve `InterpreterError` log msg to explain
the abandoned-thread scenario
(this patch was generated in some part by [`claude-code`][claude-code-gh])
[claude-code-gh]: https://github.com/anthropics/claude-code
(cherry picked from commit 99541feec7)