`ipc._uds`: assign `.l/raddr` in `.connect_to()`

Using `.get_stream_addrs()` such that we always (*can*) assign the peer
end's PID in the `._raddr`.

Also factor common `ConnectionError` re-raising into
a `_reraise_as_connerr()`-@cm.

tractor/ipc/_uds.py

@@ -18,6 +18,9 @@ Unix Domain Socket implementation of tractor.ipc._transport.MsgTransport protoco
 
 '''
 from __future__ import annotations
+from contextlib import (
+    contextmanager as cm,
+)
 from pathlib import Path
 import os
 from socket import (
@@ -29,6 +32,7 @@ from socket import (
 )
 import struct
 from typing import (
+    Type,
     TYPE_CHECKING,
     ClassVar,
 )
@@ -205,6 +209,22 @@ class UDSAddress(
             f']'
         )
 
+@cm
+def _reraise_as_connerr(
+    src_excs: tuple[Type[Exception]],
+    addr: UDSAddress,
+):
+    try:
+        yield
+    except src_excs as src_exc:
+        raise ConnectionError(
+            f'Bad UDS socket-filepath-as-address ??\n'
+            f'{addr}\n'
+            f' |_sockpath: {addr.sockpath}\n'
+            f'\n'
+            f'from src: {src_exc!r}\n'
+        ) from src_exc
+
 
 async def start_listener(
     addr: UDSAddress,
@@ -222,16 +242,14 @@ async def start_listener(
     )
 
     bindpath: Path = addr.sockpath
-    try:
+    with _reraise_as_connerr(
+        src_excs=(
+            FileNotFoundError,
+            OSError,
+        ),
+        addr=addr
+    ):
         await sock.bind(str(bindpath))
-    except (
-        FileNotFoundError,
-    ) as fdne:
-        raise ConnectionError(
-            f'Bad UDS socket-filepath-as-address ??\n'
-            f'{addr}\n'
-            f' |_sockpath: {addr.sockpath}\n'
-        ) from fdne
 
     sock.listen(1)
     log.info(
@@ -356,27 +374,30 @@ class MsgpackUDSStream(MsgpackTransport):
         # `.setsockopt()` call tells the OS provide it; the client
         # pid can then be read on server/listen() side via
         # `get_peer_info()` above.
-        try:
+
+        with _reraise_as_connerr(
+            src_excs=(
+                FileNotFoundError,
+            ),
+            addr=addr
+        ):
             stream = await open_unix_socket_w_passcred(
                 str(sockpath),
                 **kwargs
             )
-        except (
-            FileNotFoundError,
-        ) as fdne:
-            raise ConnectionError(
-                f'Bad UDS socket-filepath-as-address ??\n'
-                f'{addr}\n'
-                f' |_sockpath: {sockpath}\n'
-            ) from fdne
 
-        stream = MsgpackUDSStream(
+        tpt_stream = MsgpackUDSStream(
             stream,
             prefix_size=prefix_size,
             codec=codec
         )
-        stream._raddr = addr
-        return stream
+        # XXX assign from new addrs after peer-PID extract!
+        (
+            tpt_stream._laddr,
+            tpt_stream._raddr,
+        ) = cls.get_stream_addrs(stream)
+
+        return tpt_stream
 
     @classmethod
     def get_stream_addrs(