Disable shm resource tracker via flag on 3.13+

As per the newly added support,
https://docs.python.org/3/library/multiprocessing.shared_memory.html

tractor/ipc/_mp_bs.py

@@ -17,20 +17,38 @@
 Utils to tame mp non-SC madeness
 
 '''
+import platform
+
 
-# !TODO! in 3.13 this can be disabled (the-same/similarly) using
-# a flag,
-# - [ ] soo if it works like this, drop this module entirely for
-#   3.13+ B)
-#  |_https://docs.python.org/3/library/multiprocessing.shared_memory.html
-#
 def disable_mantracker():
     '''
     Disable all `multiprocessing` "resource tracking" machinery since
     it's an absolute multi-threaded mess of non-SC madness.
 
     '''
-    from multiprocessing import resource_tracker as mantracker
+    from multiprocessing.shared_memory import SharedMemory
+
+
+    # 3.13+ only.. can pass `track=False` to disable
+    # all the resource tracker bs.
+    # https://docs.python.org/3/library/multiprocessing.shared_memory.html
+    if (_py_313 := (
+            platform.python_version_tuple()[:-1]
+            >=
+            ('3', '13')
+        )
+    ):
+        from functools import partial
+        return partial(
+            SharedMemory,
+            track=False,
+        )
+
+    # !TODO, once we drop 3.12- we can obvi remove all this!
+    else:
+        from multiprocessing import (
+            resource_tracker as mantracker,
+        )
 
         # Tell the "resource tracker" thing to fuck off.
         class ManTracker(mantracker.ResourceTracker):
@@ -50,3 +68,8 @@ def disable_mantracker():
         mantracker.ensure_running = mantracker._resource_tracker.ensure_running
         mantracker.unregister = mantracker._resource_tracker.unregister
         mantracker.getfd = mantracker._resource_tracker.getfd
+
+        # use std type verbatim
+        shmT = SharedMemory
+
+    return shmT

tractor/ipc/_shm.py

@@ -23,14 +23,15 @@ considered optional within the context of this runtime-library.
 
 """
 from __future__ import annotations
+from multiprocessing import shared_memory as shm
+from multiprocessing.shared_memory import (
+    # SharedMemory,
+    ShareableList,
+)
+import platform
 from sys import byteorder
 import time
 from typing import Optional
-from multiprocessing import shared_memory as shm
-from multiprocessing.shared_memory import (
-    SharedMemory,
-    ShareableList,
-)
 
 from msgspec import (
     Struct,
@@ -61,7 +62,7 @@ except ImportError:
 log = get_logger(__name__)
 
 
-disable_mantracker()
+SharedMemory = disable_mantracker()
 
 
 class SharedInt:
@@ -797,7 +798,14 @@ def open_shm_list(
     # "close" attached shm on actor teardown
     try:
         actor = tractor.current_actor()
+
         actor.lifetime_stack.callback(shml.shm.close)
+
+        # XXX on 3.13+ we don't need to call this?
+        # -> bc we pass `track=False` for `SharedMemeory` orr?
+        if (
+            platform.python_version_tuple()[:-1] < ('3', '13')
+        ):
             actor.lifetime_stack.callback(shml.shm.unlink)
     except RuntimeError:
         log.warning('tractor runtime not active, skipping teardown steps')